all I have to say is....

You can't please all of the people all of the time....so I am just going to try to learn to please just me! That is right folks....ME! Life is going to become about me! ME ME ME ME ME ME!

Okay...having said that, I know it won't and I will continue to be a people pleaser despite my own feelings and needs and wants.

I love that I am a people pleaser and try to make others lives easier and happier because I am in their lives, but I have to learn a happy balance between pleasing others and pleasing myself. (Wow,if you are a perve that could be taken very wrong! LOL).

So, my new Moto, is If I can only please some of the people some of the times, then I am going to make myself happy!


Number 1 on my New Years Resolution list is to find out who Debbie is now. Not Debbie the Mother, Not Debbie the wife, not Debbie the function server...but Debbie the person. Debbie the friend, Debbie the......well...see here is the problem. Who else is Debbie? I have AMAZING Kids, an AMAZING husband and I LOVE my job and the people I work with....but there is more to me than that....isn't there? Where are my hobbies? I used to scrapbook....haven't done that in so long....I used to shop all the time....not so much anymore....I know shopping isn't a hobby, but I LOVE LOVE LOVE to shop and I get an euphoric high on finding amazing deals!

So #1....find out who Debbie is now! Yes, Debbie is a mother, Yes, Debbie is a wife and Yes, Debbie is a waitress....but there is more to Debbie and than just that!

LOOK OUT WORLD, I AM COMING BACK IN!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(or at least I am going to try!)